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Astrology and Etiquette In the 21st Century By Elsa Panizzon
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| Monday, February 2, 2009 |
Last week I went out for coffee with a Libra Man. Libra is known for good manners and it was the first time we gotten together. We both consider a gym rat, and we trade our track record of things that we see in the gym and also how we feel about each other ...
"Then one day I hold the door for you," he said. "You go by me and I thought, now that's something. I think you have" IT "."
"Really?" I think back as soon as I can. Opening doors is a big deal to me. It's significant. I can almost remember this special day. "Well I like that. I like men to open doors for me. So I'm sure I was glad about it."
"You should have been. Because you stand there and wait for me to get next door, too." He smiled.
"I did? Good. That sounds like me. But I will not do if you do not your way. Super manly, I mean. Because you know that this opened the door ... both men are no longer expected to open the door for women. "
He saw unconvinced.
"Seriously. I have been writing about this. Last year. Because this is the case at any time in the gym. Men do not get the door. I think men should get the door, but others think differently, and apparently they ' re right. Because when I write about this, some people who show up to teach etiquette say men opening doors for women antiquated. It's over. People should get the door for them, "I said.
He saw unconvinced.
"I know. I do not like it. I taught my son (Libra Moon, Libra rising) to get the door. He's seven and I ask him to hold the elevator doors to all women, or exit. And he does not. He who looks too good right, but as he throwback to another era. "
"I will always have a door for you. For every woman."
"Well, thank you. And I will always let you know. But I know more about this, because if you were a 23-year-old man and I stood waiting for you to get the door, I will stand there until I blue. This not only teach what they are anymore. Professional manners of others. I do not really like people who do not get the door for women. It just seems wrong to me. There is almost affront when a man passes in front of a woman . I think it's gross but I am just telling you this day by the missing. We go out of the loop. It's just not what is taught and I've come to terms with this. But it certainly makes me feel good when you do that. You classy, the way you do. I have "IT"? I think you have "IT." Because I say the people around here do not hold the door. That almost never happens on that day and if you do you ... hold the second door, I liked it. It helped my day. It was as if something is right in the world. "
"Well that's exactly how to feel to me. It sure makes an impression on me, I will tell you that. I am not sure at all. That makes me want to know you."
Men should hold doors for women, or people should hold doors for people? Even if you have to hold the door for them, as a woman, you like when a man holds a door for you? And if you're a man, if you like holding the door? Do you have a Libra in the chart? How about Leo (loves chivalry)
Elsa write an astrology-based advice column and various other in http://elsaelsa.com/
He also has written a book, "Heaven, I Mean Circle K" which will be published this year. |
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